Perspective: A view or vista. I am constantly amazed and reminded that how we view life depends so much on our experiences. And children are so very shapeable. It sobers me to think that their interaction with me daily shapes so much of their world view at this point. How I love, care, touch, speak, hold....shapes their little core. Does anyone else find this borderline frightening?
I have been doing some online adoption education and learning again the depths of how a child is formed through their early years is altogether amazing! We are so intrinsically created that every touch, movement or lack thereof impacts our growing and developing brains. Give your child(ren) touch often! Hold them close so they hear you breathing. Let them crawl in bed for those early morning snuggles. Speak their great value and worth in tiny whispers that only they can hear. I have an ongoing joke with Judah and Shane that they need to give me hugs until they are 80. They are nearing that slightly awkward stage that hugs aren't always welcome so we have made it light. I told them everyday that I see them until they are 80 they have to hug me! They laugh, hug me and then try to tackle me to the ground. It is their way of showing affection I guess.
Maybe I am a little more sensitive since my "baby" is almost three. But time seems to go wickedly fast!! Hug them close today! And bake some cookies for your kids to surprise them when they walk through the door after school. Unless you are that kind of mom everyday. Then I don't have anything to say to you.